Help!!! And breath. Funny how since having children I have to remind myself to do that every day. Toilet training with my 3 year old is starting to feel impossible like its never going to end, obviously one day she will stop having accidents and it will just click but i feel like im going round in circles. I think the most annoying thing is that she knows exactly when she needs the toilet but is being lazy, she can be dry all day when we go out but have multiple accidents at home. I dont shout at her when she does it but she even goes to the extremes to hide her soiled knickers so I cant see them which results in me having to scour the whole bedroom at some point in the day to find her stash of wet knickers. This has to be one of my most challenging moments as a parent, I know toilet training isnt always easy but i thought we had cracked this a year ago.